The security of God's love

Where do we find security in our relationships of love? I'd suggest that there are usually two places:

1. A high view of ourself - we think we've got something so attractive about us that love is the natural way people should relate to us. We are good looking, we're witty we're intelligent or we know the right people. In short we have something to offer.
2. A low view of others - we think that they need us. Perhaps we trust that our girlfriend will never dump us because she can't deal with being alone, or that a friend will always be happy to meet up because they have a constant need to talk to someone... anyone.

I think we apply these human ways of thinking to God. They manifest themself like this:

1. Some kind of legalism. Either human beings in general are basically lovely, or if everyone doesn't merit love, at least we do by virtue of who we are or what we've done.
2. Some kind of doctrine of divine necessity. In order to be true to who he is, he had to love us. Perhaps he needed an object to love, perhaps he needed to display his glory. It is probably less common that legalism, but it is out there as an idea.

In contrast to both of these the Bible says that God loved us totally freely. We don't deserve his love and he didn't need to give it, but still he set his love on us.

As Susanna Wesley says:

[God] is being itself, and as such must be infinitely happy in the glorious perfections of his nature from everlasting to everlasting; and as he did not create, so neither did he redeem because he needed us; but he loved us because he loved us

(cited in p. 61, Fred Sanders, Embracing the Trinity)

That final phrase is almost lifted from Deuteronomy 7 where, if you follow the logic through, Moses says the same thing:

It was not because you were more in number than any other people that the Lord set his love on you and chose you, for you were the fewest of all peoples, but it is because the Lord loves you and is keeping the oath that he swore to your fathers (Deut 7:7-8)

Speaking to a friend today he confessed that there is something slightly terrifying about that. God seems to leave us nothing to grasp hold of in order to give us security of his love. We can't point to something in ourselves or in the rules of logic. He simply asks us to trust him personally.

Except, he does do more than that, as the verse in Deuteronomy suggests. He makes an oath. As the author of the letter to the Hebrews says:

"when God desired to show more convincingly to the heirs of the promise the unchangeable character of his purpose, he guaranteed it with an oath, so that by two unchangeable things, in which it is impossible for God to lie, we who have fled for refuge might have strong encouragement to hold fast to the hope set before us." (Heb 6:17-18)

He voluntarily ties his love into his unchangeable nature. In the past he wasn't bound to love us, but now he has freely bound himself to love us in his word of promise.

And when you heard 'word' in that last sentence, I hope you know where you need to go!

This promise is supremely found in the incarnate Son, Jesus Christ, who suffers in our place and is raised again for our justification. All so that we can be adopted and joined into the divine life. So now if we are 'in Christ' God cannot cease to love us without denying his own self, and God's love for us is even more secure than the universe.

As Karl Barth says:

He loves them with the same eternal love with which He loves the Son (Jn. 17:23 ["I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me."])." (my bold, CD IV, 2, 758)

Picking up on the distinction I made in a previous post, God the Father's freely placed love-for-the-unlovely church becomes bound, by the Son's mission in the Spirit, to his love-for-the-lovely Son; and that love-for-the-lovely is so integral to his being that it is as secure as his existence!

Amazing love! How can it be,
That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?